Sometimes the husband has a favorite and the other women are considered inferior. Within some cultures that promote arranged marriages, the man can have many wives. There could be many wives and many offspring Neither the husband nor the wife is able to stop this from happening. Sometimes, if it is an overbearing family committing the interference, these acts do more harm than good. In an arranged marriage, it is common for the families of both parties to interfere. Be thankful if you live in a society where this does not happen. If anyone tries to defy this practice, harsh punishments may occur. In cultures where marriages are arranged, it is also commonplace for that culture to strictly forbid any same-sex marriage. Sometimes same-sex marriage is not permitted One or the other could be very religious and attend services faithfully, while the other stays at home and professes their faith privately. These might have to be cast aside for the remainder of their lives. When a couple marries by force, the spouses may have different religious or spiritual beliefs. Different religious values can be present Unhappiness excludes no gender in an arranged marriage. Perhaps he is in love with someone else and is now separated from them. It is not only the woman that can be unhappy in an arranged marriage. There is no spontaneity involved and subsequently, no attraction either.
In an arranged marriage, this does not happen. One asks the other for permission to date them. The two people in the couple are attracted to each other. In a conventional union, there is usually a courtship period. There is no courtship period between the two She is not afforded the option of seeking help or of leaving. The wife must endure this for the rest of her life. Very often in an arranged marriage, the husband is cruel and violent towards his wife. When he leaves the house, she suspects he is betraying her. He may elect not to believe that the woman is not doing bad things when he is not home. This is especially true if the man has a suspicious nature. Otherwise, there can be harsh consequences. She must do exactly what her husband tells her to do. The man is usually allowed to do anything he wants, but the woman is not. Women do not have any rights in an arranged marriage Is this unfair? Perhaps yes, but that is the way things are in such a union. Women are not permitted to have a say, not even if it is regarding their children.
What does this mean? In an arranged marriage it is usually the man that makes all decisions. If the man is respectful and gentle towards the woman, they can actually be very happy together for many years. Sometimes a mutual appreciation or fondness develops between the two people even if they don’t fall in love. No! There are exceptions where the partners learn to love each other. Often in these situations, it is not possible for them to get a divorce no matter how unhappy they might be. They usually do but again, out of duty to family or their nation. This is as opposed to the steps taken during the course of a traditional relationship. Every step taken in an arranged marriage is done out of duty to their families or their country of origin. Occasionally yes, but typically they cannot.
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